The common assumption about success is that it requires choosing between oneโs career and personal life or sacrificing one for the other.ย Stew Friedman, Wharton professor and global authority on leadership and performance, has found in over three decades of working with senior executives and leaders that achieving work/lifeย balanceย is a myth. The key to successย andย personal fulfillment, says Friedman, is work/lifeย integration: treating work, home, community and personal well-being holistically, and determining how to achieve โfour-way winsโ that positively impact performance in all of them.
Through his provenย Total Leadershipย program โ as exhibited by several executives in his recent article forย People + Strategy, โTotal Leadership: Improving Performance in All Part of Lifeโ โ Friedman helps leaders not only improve their own lives but demonstrably enhance company productivity and value.
A prolific writer, Friedman clearly outlines in People + Strategy the framework leaders can follow to achieve a company culture that values harmony between all domains of employeesโ lives. โTotal Leadership is not an abstract idea; it is a structured method that produces measurable change,โ writes Friedman. โYou become more focused on the things that matter and so you feel more grounded, more like the person you want to be.โ
Friedman uses the example of a Target executive whose performance at work and relationship with his wife were both deteriorating. Rather than focusing on one important aspect of his life at the expense of the other, the executive turned to the Total Leadership framework to achieve integration. He began discussing work more often with his wife at home, while also cutting back on the hours he spent at the office. Consequently, his marriage improved in line with his clarity and competence on the job. This change in behavior also empowered his employees to take the same approach, which yielded happier, more productive, innovative workers.
Friedmanโs framework, which was โdesigned to work for anyone at any organizational level and in any career stage,โ has been employed by leaders at many of the worldโs top corporations, producing concrete positive results for individuals and the companies where they lead and work. Total Leadership is a powerful guide for improving oneโs organization through the betterment of oneself, reaching not just career goals or personal happiness โ but both.