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  • Unlearning Silence: How to speak your mind, unleash talent, and live more fully
    Unlearning Silence: How to speak your mind, unleash talent, and live more fully
  • The Science of Speaking Up for Yourself | Elaine Lin Hering | Ten Percent Happier
    The Science of Speaking Up for Yourself | Elaine Lin Hering | Ten Percent Happier
  • Inspirational Insights- Using Your Voice to Craft the Career and Life You Want.mp4
    Inspirational Insights- Using Your Voice to Craft the Career and Life You Want.mp4
  • Elaine Lin Hering with Ruchika Tulshyan: Finding Your Voice
    Elaine Lin Hering with Ruchika Tulshyan: Finding Your Voice
  • THE DANGER OF SILENCE with Elaine Lin Hering [CC]
    THE DANGER OF SILENCE with Elaine Lin Hering [CC]
  • Unlearning Silence: Speaking Up at Work | Soulcast Media LIVE w/ Elaine Lin Hering
    Unlearning Silence: Speaking Up at Work | Soulcast Media LIVE w/ Elaine Lin Hering

Learn More About Elaine Lin Hering

With organizations facing constant disruption, from AI-driven transformation and hybrid work to rising employee disengagement and increasing pressure to innovate, leaders can no longer afford cultures where people stay silent. The ability to surface honest feedback, challenge assumptions, navigate disagreement, and draw out the best ideas across a team has become a strategic advantage. Elaine Lin Hering helps organizations do exactly that.

A speaker, facilitator, and former lecturer at Harvard Law School, Hering works with senior leaders to solve one of the most persistent and costly problems in business: why people do not say what needs to be said. Her work sits at the intersection of communication, collaboration, conflict management, and leadership. She helps organizations understand how silence – whether driven by fear, power dynamics, culture, or habit – undermines innovation, slows decision-making, and prevents teams from performing at their best.

Hering is the USA Today bestselling author of “Unlearning Silence: How to Speak Your Mind, Unleash Talent, and Live More Fully” (Penguin Random House, 2024), a book that has been translated into more than 10 languages and adopted by organizations seeking to create cultures where people contribute fully. A former managing partner at a global leadership development firm, she has taught executive education programs at Harvard, Dartmouth, Tufts, UC Berkeley, and UCLA, served as Advanced Training Director for the Harvard Mediation Program, and taught as a lecturer on law at Harvard Law School. In 2025, she was named to the Thinkers50 Radar class and recognized among the Top 30 Global Management Thinkers.

Hering’s central insight is both simple and urgent: most organizations do not have a talent problem – they have a silence problem. Leaders often tell people to “speak up,” yet fail to address the real and perceived costs of doing so. Employees stay quiet when they worry they will be dismissed, penalized, misunderstood, or labeled difficult. The result is that critical information goes unsaid, bad ideas move forward unchecked, and organizations lose the very perspectives they need most. Hering gives leaders a practical framework for reversing that pattern.

How to Lead Through Silence, Uncertainty, and Change

In periods of transformation, organizations need people who can raise concerns early, adapt quickly, and challenge outdated assumptions. Yet these are often the moments when silence becomes most dangerous. During restructuring, AI implementation, market volatility, or cultural change, employees frequently hold back their concerns because they do not want to appear resistant, uninformed, or out of step.

Drawing on more than 15 years of executive coaching, facilitation, and negotiation work, Hering helps leaders recognize the hidden ways silence shows up inside organizations. She demonstrates why the common advice to “just speak up” fails, especially for women, underrepresented employees, and leaders operating in environments shaped by power differences. Instead, she shows how leaders can create the conditions that make candor possible.

Her work is grounded in thousands of confidential conversations with executives, teams, and managers across industries. She has coached leaders through moments of organizational change, facilitated difficult conversations between senior teams, and helped companies navigate the tensions that arise when speed, performance, and inclusion collide. After hearing Hering, leaders leave with a clearer understanding of how to identify the signals of silence, invite more honest dialogue, and create cultures where critical information reaches the people who need to hear it.

Building Cultures Where the Best Ideas Win

Many organizations believe they have a collaboration problem when in fact they have a communication problem. The loudest voices dominate, the same people contribute repeatedly, and teams talk about one another rather than to one another. As a result, innovation slows, conflict becomes unproductive, and valuable talent remains untapped.

Hering challenges leaders to rethink what it means to create an inclusive, high-performing culture. Building on more than two decades of work influenced by the Harvard Negotiation Project and the principles behind “Getting to Yes,” she shows that effective collaboration is not about avoiding conflict. It is about learning how to surface disagreement productively, give and receive feedback more effectively, and create the kind of trust that allows people to take risks.

Her sessions equip leaders with practical tools for improving how teams communicate under pressure. She teaches leaders how to surface the best ideas instead of simply rewarding the most confident voices, how to ask questions that invite candor, and how to make feedback part of the way the organization operates rather than an occasional exercise. In a time when companies are asking teams to innovate faster, work across functions, and make decisions with incomplete information, these skills are no longer optional.

This perspective has resonated with organizations ranging from American Express, Chevron, Google, IBM, Merck, Nike, Novartis, PayPal, Pixar, Salesforce, Shell, and Workday to the U.S. Department of Commerce and the Red Cross. Hering has worked with coal miners at BHP Billiton, microfinance organizers in East Africa, mental health professionals in China, and senior executives in Fortune 100 companies. Having worked on six continents and equipped more than 350,000 leaders, she is known for her ability to help people communicate across differences in power, culture, race, gender, and identity.

Why Most Organizations Get Communication Wrong

Leaders often assume communication is a matter of confidence or personality. Hering argues that the real issue is structural. Organizations unintentionally reward silence by praising compliance, punishing dissent, or creating environments where only certain voices are heard. Leaders then wonder why employees disengage, why innovation stalls, or why problems emerge too late.

Hering’s work helps leaders move beyond surface-level communication training to address the deeper dynamics shaping behavior. She teaches leaders to recognize the assumptions, incentives, and habits that keep people quiet—and then replace them with systems that encourage people to contribute. Her keynotes and workshops are especially valuable for organizations navigating succession planning, leadership development, culture change, post-merger integration, and efforts to build more resilient and adaptive teams.

Because her work is rooted in real organizational challenges, Hering is as effective with a room of hundreds as she is with an intimate senior leadership team. She customizes every engagement around the audience’s specific business pressures and strategic priorities. Clients consistently note that she combines intellectual rigor with practical application, delivering not only insight but also tools leaders can use immediately.

Hering’s ideas have appeared in Harvard Business Review, Bloomberg, Forbes, McKinsey, Fast Company, NPR, and Rotman. Her work has become increasingly relevant as leaders confront the realities of AI, distributed teams, economic uncertainty, and rapidly shifting expectations about leadership and culture. In each of these contexts, the organizations that will succeed are those that can adapt quickly, learn faster, and hear what others miss.

For organizations seeking to build stronger leadership, more candid cultures, and teams capable of navigating uncertainty with confidence, Elaine Lin Hering offers a timely and practical perspective. Her work is especially valuable for Fortune 100 companies, leadership development programs, women’s leadership initiatives, executive communications teams, and organizations undergoing significant change. Audiences leave with a deeper understanding of why people stay silent, a clearer strategy for changing that pattern, and the tools to create workplaces where people speak up, collaborate more effectively, and perform at a higher level.

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Elaine Lin Hering is a speaker, facilitator, and former lecturer at Harvard Law School who helps leaders solve one of the most persistent challenges in organizations: why people do not say what needs to be said. Her work focuses on communication, collaboration, conflict management, and the hidden patterns of silence that prevent teams from surfacing their best ideas. Working at the intersection of leadership, negotiation, and organizational behavior, Hering equips leaders to communicate with greater clarity, invite more honest dialogue, and build cultures where people contribute rather than hold back.

Hering is the USA Today bestselling author of “Unlearning Silence: How to Speak Your Mind, Unleash Talent, and Live More Fully” (Penguin Random House, 2024), which has been translated into more than 10 languages. In the book, she argues that telling people to “just speak up” is not enough. Organizations must understand the real and perceived costs of speaking candidly and create the conditions that make honest communication possible.

A former managing partner at a global leadership development firm, Hering has spent more than 15 years teaching, speaking, and advising across industries and around the world. She has worked on six continents and equipped more than 350,000 leaders through keynote speeches, executive education programs, workshops, and coaching. Her clients include American Express, Chevron, Google, IBM, Merck, Nike, Novartis, PayPal, Pixar, Salesforce, Shell, Workday, the Red Cross, and the U.S. Department of Commerce.

Hering has taught executive education at Harvard, Dartmouth, Tufts, UC Berkeley, and UCLA. She served as Advanced Training Director for the Harvard Mediation Program and later taught negotiation, mediation, and conflict management as a lecturer on law at Harvard Law School. She also taught negotiation and mediation at Monash Law School in Australia.

Her speaking and advisory work centers on practical leadership issues, including speaking up, navigating productive conflict, improving feedback, and helping teams move from apathy to action. Whether addressing a large conference audience or working with a senior leadership team, Hering combines research, strategic insight, and practical tools leaders can use immediately. Participants leave with the ability to surface the best ideas instead of only the loudest voices, communicate more effectively in difficult moments, and create environments where people work with one another rather than around one another.

Hering’s work has been featured in Harvard Business Review, Bloomberg, Forbes, McKinsey, Fast Company, NPR, and Rotman. In 2025, she was named to the Thinkers50 Radar class and recognized among the Top 30 Global Management Thinkers.

Elaine Lin Hering is available to advise your organization via virtual and in-person consulting meetings, interactive workshops and customized keynotes through the exclusive representation of Stern Speakers & Advisors, a division of Stern Strategy Group®.

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How to Find and Use Your Voice

People like you are underrepresented – in the industry, meetings, and rooms you’re in. But the truth is you’ve long been underestimated. Told to wait your turn, not rock the boat, and follow the rules. As you watch other people get the opportunities and promotions you want, you wonder what’s missing. The common advice “just speak up” falls flat if we fail to recognize the silence we’ve learned and the real and perceived costs associated with speaking up. In this session, we interrogate the role silence plays in your leadership and offer concrete ways to find and use your voice – for the impact you want.

As a result of this keynote, participants be able to: identify their unique value-add perspective, own their narrative even in the face of disagreement, utilize 3 levers for using your voice, and leverage key phrases when they feel stuck.

Unleash Talent: Turn Apathy into Action

You’ve hired good people and are doing solid work. But it seems like there’s untapped potential. How do you work together so the team is greater than the sum of its parts? People consistently talk about each other rather than to each other. How do you get them to talk to each other? To speak up and share what really matters? Building on 20+ years of research at the Harvard Negotiation Project, Elaine explores the underrated factor that undercuts team effectiveness, collaboration, and innovation: the ways we unintentionally silence the very people we aim to support and the results that can come f rom unleashing that talent.

In this keynote, participants will learn how to: support rather than silence the people they lead, surface the best ideas, not just the loudest ones, invite feedback necessary to ideate, course correct, and drive results, and build a culture where people work with rather than workaround each other.

Raise Your Team's Voice by Building a Culture of Openness

How can leaders avoid the trap of inadvertently cultivating environments where silence seems like the safest option, stifling innovation and honest feedback? According to Elaine Lin Hering, a former advanced training director for the Harvard Mediation Program and a lecturer on law at Harvard Law School, leaders can break these barriers by actively designing communication practices that incentivize speaking up. In this revealing presentation, she draws on her bestselling book “Unlearning Silence,” as well as her extensive experience in conflict management and negotiation, to structure interactions that foster open dialogue and dissent, allowing for issues to be addressed before they escalate. Hering teaches audiences how to design communication practices that account for differences in wiring and how to ask questions that get below the surface, enabling leaders to dismantle cultures of silence. Attendees will leave with tools and strategies for fostering an environment where every voice is heard and valued, but not over-weighted. Using Hering’s approach, leaders find increased clarity for evaluating options and using their energy effectively, leading to enhanced problem-solving and decision-making across all levels of the organization.

Learn Powerful Strategies for Enhancing Team Engagement

Teams work to solve problems, but conflict and communication struggles often undercut collaboration. According to Harvard Law School lecturer Elaine Lin Hering, individuals using their voices leads to newfound innovation, fresh ideas and creative thinking. In this educational session, Hering tackles this challenge head-on by showing audiences of employees and leaders how they can recognize and unlearn unconscious patterns that keep people silent. By revealing what’s driving these actions, she helps team members see how they can make more intentional choices about how they want to show up. A warm and relatable speaker, Hering unpacks how to identify each teammate’s value and offers concrete steps for finding and using your individual voice toward collective success. By illuminating the role silence has played in everyone’s careers, she provides attendees with strategies for calculating the real and perceived costs and benefits of speaking up, and how to best enable workers and leaders to raise their voices.

Building Effective Speak Up Cultures

Creating a dynamic communication environment within teams doesn’t happen by accident – it requires intentional design and leadership commitment. This interactive workshop led by Elaine Lin Hering, bestselling author of “Unlearning Silence,” tackles the common yet overlooked problem of silence within teams, which can undermine both performance and morale. Focusing on practical interventions, guided discussion and engaging activities, this eye-opening session offers a hands-on approach to reshaping communication practices across organizations. Participants will undertake exercises that mirror real-world scenarios to design more inclusive communication strategies and learn the right questions to ask to unlock true team potential. Attendees will leave this educational workshop with immediately applicable tools for fostering a culture that celebrates and utilizes the full range of employees’ ideas, insights and expertise. Leaders will be empowered to bring open communication, enhanced collaboration and better team effectiveness back to their organizations.

Praise for Elaine Lin Hering

“Her ability to connect with audiences immediately… her masterful knowledge and unparalleled listening and reflection invite and enable others to get better.”

Global Marketing Director, Nike

“Elaine was so present. She really got us. She understood and spoke to the moment. She made change feel possible.”

Vice President, College of Marin

“This was the most engaging event I've been to! I loved how she presented and all the tips. I greatly appreciate getting real examples and actions I can take.”

Frontline Manager, Edelman Financial

"Elaine changed my life. She spoke both to my work and to my soul."

President, California Community College

"I’ve already received numerous emails, texts, and IMs sharing how valuable your session was. And even better, many are readying for the book club discussion next week."

Vice President, Wells Fargo

"Elaine is so good at what she does. Her ability to connect with audiences immediately and in a human way, her masterful knowledge and unparalleled listening and reflection invite and enable others to get better."

Global Marketing Director, Nike

"Elaine is the best interviewers... [the Global Leadership Summit] has ever had."

One of the 1,800,000 Summit Attendees via Twitter/X

"Elaine was able to balance two important factors throughout the training. On the one hand, she could offer vulnerability and her own demonstrative stories/examples, which made her relatable. On the other hand, she came across as very expert and knowledgeable about the subject matter, which established trust with the audience right away."

Manager, Protect Democracy

"It was dreamy – if that’s the proper way to describe it. It was perfectly wonderful and we are extremely grateful for the experience!"

Event Organizer, Kaiser Permanente

Praise for "Unlearning Silence"

"A transformative guide that delves deep into the intricate dynamics of silence, unraveling why individuals often withhold their voices and the subtle ways they unintentionally stifle others. 'Unlearning Silence' is a masterful exploration of the intricate art of communication. Run, don't walk, to read this book. It is such a powerful exploration of voice and the courage and space to use it."

TD Magazine

"A necessary read. With empathy and clarity, Elaine unpacks what makes it so hard to honor ourselves and talk with each other. 'Unlearning Silence' offers an opportunity and tools to change things within and around us – for ourselves and those we love."

Lori Gottlieb, New York Times Bestselling Author, "Maybe You Should Talk to Someone" and Co-Host, "Dear Therapists" Podcast

"'Unlearning Silence' is the book I wish I had when I started my career. Hering not only proves why silence is toxic, but, critically, goes a step further and shows us how to speak up in a way that is safe, values aligned, and has the greatest chance of being impactful. This book is going to change the workplace for the better."

Pooja Lakshmin, MD, Psychiatrist and Bestselling Author,"Real Self-Care"

"Too often as women, we are told we are the problem. Books tell us to just be more confident. To show up and then speak up. Elaine goes deeper and shows us that the silence we've been indoctrinated by runs deep and it is what holds us back and makes us feel small. A must read for every leader."

Deepa Purushothaman, Author, "The First, The Few, The Only"

"We cannot heal our world if we do not unlearn silence. An inviting and essential read."

Alex Elle, New York Times Bestselling Author, "How We Heal"

"Whether we have been socialized to keep quiet, punished for speaking up, or feel panic at the prospect of voicing our truth, our silence deprives the workplace and the world of our ideas and crucial contributions. Elaine Lin Hering’s amazing book provides the secret recipe for breaking silence once and for all! Everyone should read "Unlearning Silence" — including a lot of men who mute themselves and look the other way when sexism and bias rear their heads."

W. Brad Johnson, Ph.D., Professor of Leadership, Ethics, and Law, U. S. Naval Academy and Co-Author, "Good Guys: How Men Can Be Better Allies for Women in the Workplace"

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